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How to Avoid Five Relationship Pitfalls



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Shishler, Ari
Rabbi Ari Shishler is the director of Chabad of Strathavon, South Africa



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Posted: Aug 10, 2007
Reb ari shishter's advices for relationship
^Rabbi,
I listened to your lecture and simply was astonished. I'm teaching judaism for twenty years now (although not this field) learned in parallel for about the same amout of time but for lots of the references you bring I never heard these interpretations. Thank you so much for this wonderfull shiour. Thanks for the humoristic parts too and all the stories that made this lesson just ...euhhh let say the word... perfect!!!
Posted By Anonymous, Paris/Jerusalem, FR. IS.



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